Category: How To

  • HOW TO MAKE CARE PACKAGES FOR THE HOMELESS {aka BLESSING BAGS}

    HOW TO MAKE CARE PACKAGES FOR THE HOMELESS {aka BLESSING BAGS}


    I hesitate to write about volunteering and charity for fear of coming across as “preachy” or a “self-indulgent do-gooder” or a myriad of other negative terms that one can apply to someone who participates in charitable ventures simply for the praise that may result from the participation.  After much thought, I decided to share my Christmas tradition with you… simply because I thought that the more people that took part in this tradition, the better Christmas could be for so many others.  On Christmas Day, I load my canvas totes with care packages to give to the homeless {some refer to these packages as “Blessing Bags”… a term that is a bit too ostentatious for my taste}.  Below, there is a graphic showing you what I suggest to be included in your care package {though you can include anything you like!}.  Everything should fit in a gallon sized ziplock bag {for ease of distribution and ease of carrying after it has been gifted}.  It is also wise to carry these in your car year-round to give to anyone who may be asking assistance on the side of the road or at a stoplight.  What do you do to give back to your community?

    Suggestions for inclusion: tissue, deodorant, mouth wash, shampoo, toothbrush, cotton swabs, band-aids, toothpaste, soap, chapstick, raisins, cookies, crackers, & anything else you can think of! Make as many of the bags as you can afford to create and walk around handing them out or keep them in your car in preparation for running into someone in need.

  • GLUTEN FREE THANKSGIVING {HOW TO HOST A GLUTEN-FREE HOLIDAY}

    GLUTEN FREE THANKSGIVING {HOW TO HOST A GLUTEN-FREE HOLIDAY}

    Russ Parsons’ Dry-Brined Turkey {a.k.a. The Judy Bird}

    As I walked through Santa Barbara’s Farmers’ Market and collected some stunning decorative kale & gladiolas to adorn the Thanksgiving table, it struck me that this will be my first gluten-free Thanksgiving. As opposed to being discouraged, I scoured Pinterest for gluten-free alternatives to classic Thanksgiving staples.  I’ve gathered my favorites here {all linking back to their original source} for you to enjoy.  Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

    Gluten Free Stuffing

    Sweet Potato Casserole

    Balsamic Roasted Carrots

    Ginger & Citrus Cranberry Sauce

    Roasted Potatoes Seasoned with Homemade Za’atar & Aleppo Pepper

    Coconut Pumpkin Pie

  • HOW TO PACK A CARRY ON {or Carry-on Necessities for the Pampered Traveler}

    HOW TO PACK A CARRY ON {or Carry-on Necessities for the Pampered Traveler}


    After recently returning from a wonderful stint across the pond, I found my love of travel to be greatly reaffirmed… and my hatred of airplanes {recycled air, cramped quarters, and hundreds of passengers with the sniffles} magnified.  To make the most of a long flight, pack some of these essentials to land feeling as pampered and refreshed as possible.
    *Everything listed below is “travel size” {i.e. TSA allows it to be carried on an airplane… make sure liquids are in a ziplock bag!}


    Hair Texturizer, Hairspray, Hair Ties & Bobby Pins {in your hair color} – Something about airplanes always turns my straight hair into a tangled-uber-frizzy-ball-of-fur.  To combat this, I typically throw my hair into a messy-chic pony upon landing.  A little texturizer on the tail, bobby pins to hold back the bangs {I like to twist them for added style}, & hairspray to smooth the whole look.  Now you have hair that is sleek and polished instead of a catastrophic mess.
    Sleeping Mask – I seem to always sit near the individual who feels the need to keep their window shade open throughout the duration of the flight.  This tends to result in a great deal of sun reflecting directly into my eyes; this, needless to say, interferes with my desire to get some much needed rest.  A cute sleeping mask solves this in a pinch {and keeps neighbors from attempting any unwanted conversation}.
    Midsized Clutch – Don’t just throw your essentials in a ziplock bag… Throw them in a ziplock bag and then put them inside a clutch.  This keeps things neat and gives you another accessory for your trip without taking up additional room.
    Headache Medicine – The stress of travel and airports and all kinds of things can lead to a headache attack at the worst possible moment {like 35,000 feet in the air}.  Nip it in the bud with your favorite headache reliever.
    Kleenex – I blame the recycled airplane air for the frequent sniffles that seem to befall most passengers on the plane an hour or so into the trip.  Wiping your nose on your sleeve is uncivilized.  Have a kleenex handy.
    iPhone with Headphones – Great environment control.  Annoying neighbor? Headphones in and turn that music up.  Too much noise to sleep? Headphones in and start your white noise application.  Horrible movie choices? Headphones in and play one of the flicks you downloaded before the flight.  Basically, my airplane sanity.
    Tinted Lipbalm – Upon landing, you’ll likely look a bit washed out and tired.  Some tinted lip balm helps to distract from this tragic airplane side effect.
    Solid perfume – A traveling essential.  Rub some behind your ears and on your wrists for an instant pick-me-up.


    Neosporin – Dab a little inside your nose before take off to help combat airplane germs.
    Mouthwash – Breathing recycled air for 10 hours? Trust me… You need mouthwash.
    Contacts & Eyedrops – If you’re anything like me {um. blind as a bat.}, then you’ll want a little I’d-like-to-be-able-to-see-when-I-land backup.  Recycled air will dry up those contacts… So use some eyedrops {even if you’re not a lens wearer} and have some extra lenses handy.
    Facewipes – I always start my flight wearing minimal makeup {a bit of foundation and a couple swipes of mascara on the upper lashes only… you don’t want raccoon eyes after your midair nap}.  However, the foundation looks like a spotty mess at the end of the trip because of sleeping {directly on my face} and the dry air.  I wipe it all off with a moisturizing facewipe to ensure that I have a blank canvas to work with when I get to my hotel.
    Deodorant – 10+ hour flight? This is self-explanatory. Use it.
    Toothpaste & Toothbrush – When there is about an hour left of fly-time, I get up to brush my teeth.  It helps to wake you up {airplanes have a tendency to leave all of us a bit groggy} and triggers to your brain that this is the start of a new day {important when you’re fighting a massive time difference}.
    Chapstick – apply frequently during the flight.  Dry lips can lead to cracked lips.  Cracked lips can lead to unnecessary misery on your trip {and they make a horrible base for fabulously bright lipstick that you’ll certainly want to wear}.
    Hand Lotion, Body Lotion, & Cuticle Balm – At some point during my flight {and sometimes twice}, I like to go through a moisturizing ritual.  Arms, neck, hands, cuticles.  It’s amazing how much moisturizing helps with looking and feeling refreshed when you land.

    What do you pack to make your long flights easier?

  • HOW TO – WEAR SEQUINS

    HOW TO – WEAR SEQUINS

    If you go overboard with sequins, you can wind up looking like an overgrown and/or out of place frilly ballerina.  The proportions of a tailored blazer and boyfriend jeans keeps the sequins looking chic, intentional, and a bit rugged, as opposed to looking like some kind of showgirl explosion.  You should look like a tomboy who decided to wear sequins.  How intriguing is that?

    1. Arden B. Geometric Stone Statement Necklace $39, 2. Kate Spade New York “Treasure Chest” Statement Necklace $428, 3. Bebe Multi Stone Statement Necklace $24, 4. Acne Lee Tux Wool Blend Tailored Jacket $723, 5. Reiss Ivy Tailored Jacket $360, 6. Julien David Tailored Wool Blazer $1,762, 7. Topshop Sequin Peplum Top, 8. Topshop Sequin Tee $92, 9. Pierre Balmain Sequin T-Shirt $304, 10. Current/Elliott Boyfriend Jean $206, 11. Topshop Sparkle Yoke Boyfriend Jeans $110, 12. Rag & Bone The Dre Slim Boyfriend Jean $220, 13. Calvin Klein Collection Amelia Chunky Heel Sandal $900, 14. Cheap Monday Layer Chunky Heel Booties $145, 15. Guess Sandals Jadynn Chunky Heel $115

  • HOW TO – RAPUNZEL HAIR TUTORIAL

    HOW TO – RAPUNZEL HAIR TUTORIAL

    All you need is a hairbrush, teasing comb, hair ties, bobby pins, hairspray, & finishing spray!

    httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewakNMrs4l8&feature=plcp

  • HOW TO – SOCK BUN TUTORIAL

    HOW TO – SOCK BUN TUTORIAL

    httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBZgkQOi124&feature=plcp


    Socks: Club Room Socks $6, Teasing Comb: Marilyn Teaser Brush $16, Elastics: Vidal Sassoon No Crimp Braid Elastics $3, Bobby Pins: Elle Bobby Pins $3.50